How to Use a Prostate Massager on Your Partner

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Adding a little extra spice to your sex life is always a welcome activity. Bringing devices into the bedroom can increase intimacy with your partner as you explore each other in new and exciting ways. For those in a heterosexual relationship, it’s often thought that toys are solely for women’s use. But that is not always the case.

A prostate massager is designed with the male anatomy in mind to deliver exceptional pleasure and can be an enjoyable experience for both partners. If you and your partner have never used a device like this before, it can feel a bit daunting. Read on to learn how to use a prostate massager on your partner and how you can both reap the benefits of it.

What is a Prostate Massager and How Does it Work?

A prostate massager is a sexual device that is inserted anally to provide stimulation to the prostate, a walnut-sized gland that is located between the bladder and the rectum. The prostate is frequently referred to as the male G-spot because it can produce intense orgasms for men when stimulated.

Prostate massagers are specifically designed to target the prostate and provide stimulation through pressure and massage. While it’s possible to perform a prostate massage manually, the use of a device further intensified the experience. Many men use prostate massagers for self-pleasure but it can be a fantastic device to use with a partner to heighten the sexual experience.

Preparing for Fun

Before you get started using the prostate massager, you want to make sure you have plenty of lubricants. Lubricant is necessary for every use and will be especially needed for the first time. 

Most prostate massagers are made with silicone, like Giddi’s Tomo Come Hither Prostate Massager. You will need to use a water-based lubricant with silicone to avoid causing damage to your device and ultimately increase the longevity of use. Avoid using petroleum-based or silicone-based lubricants or hybrids. It’s also not recommended to use oils or creams as lubricants due to the sensitive nature of the tissues inside the rectum.

Once you have your lube, you want to first loosen up the anus to allow for a more comfortable insertion with the prostate massager. Have your partner apply some lube on their finger to insert into the anus, swirl it around to lube and loosen the area, and then insert the massager.

Tips for Using the Massager

When inserting the massager, always do so slowly. Communicate with your partner to gauge how the insertion feels. If your partner experiences any pain or discomfort, remove the device. Often, adding more lube will help make this more comfortable. Make sure your partner is very relaxed, as the anus can tighten or clench if your partner is nervous.

Once the massager is inserted, the real fun can begin. Prostate massagers feature varying levels of massage and speed to intensify your partner’s climax. The Tomo, for example, features nine intense vibration modes and three come hither motions. Each feature applies pressure to the prostate to deliver an explosive climax.

One of the great features of many massagers, like the Tomo, is it is hands-free. You can let the device do its work while you explore your partner in other ways. Your hands are free to touch their body, kiss them all over, and add further pleasure to the experience. No need to spend all the time focused on the device. This allows you to deepen your intimacy with your partner and intensify their orgasm.

Important Cleaning Tips

Keeping your prostate massager clean is incredibly important to reduce the risk of infections. It is recommended to clean the device before and after every use. You only need two ingredients for cleaning: antibacterial soap and warm water. Steer clear of soaps or cleansers that may contain alcohol, petrol, or acetone.

Using clean hands, rinse the massage with warm water. Apply the antibacterial soap and scrub the device with your hand. Rinse the soap off with warm water and pat the massager dry with a lint-free towel.

Imagine the possibilities you and your partner can enjoy when you add a prostate massager into your sex life. Explosive orgasms are a fantastic bonus to any sexual relationship. Don’t let another day with your partner pass without trying out this fun device.

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